


Written by Majken Lorelei Matzau
Words shaped by decades in the room with leaders – their struggles, their breakthroughs, and everything in between


Written by Majken Lorelei Matzau
Words shaped by decades in the room with leaders – their struggles, their breakthroughs, and everything in between

Author: Majken Lorelei Matzau
Recent research suggests that the good feeling from a holiday can last approximately 43 days – under the right conditions. But most people never reach those conditions, because they arrive at their holiday already exhausted.
Many people make the mistake of working at full intensity right up to the moment of departure, arriving not rested but depleted. When you start a holiday running on empty, the first week is spent in recovery rather than genuine rest. The nervous system needs time to understand that the threats – visible and invisible – have actually passed. Skip that transition and you may fall ill in the first days of holiday, as the body finally demands the healing it has long been denied.
For those already experiencing burnout, two weeks is rarely enough. The body requires extended, uninterrupted time to access deep, restorative breathing. Planning every moment of a holiday works against its purpose – instead, allow for unstructured time where each day unfolds naturally, in something resembling the freedom of childhood.
Stress narrows sensory awareness. When we are genuinely relaxed, we experience a heightened sense of taste, bodily sensation, and enjoyment. This is why intimacy often improves during holidays – the absence of stress allows for real pleasure. Vacation is not simply the absence of work; it is the presence of a different kind of consciousness.
Research also shows that the heart benefits significantly from adequate rest. Men with elevated risk of heart disease show markedly lower mortality rates when they take annual holidays. Sleep patterns normalize, particularly for those who are chronically sleep-deprived during working life.
Before departure, reduce your workload, cancel unnecessary meetings, and avoid starting major new projects. Resolve urgent matters so that your subconscious can genuinely let go.
Upon return, the transition back should mirror the transition forward. Returning home on Sunday and sitting at your desk on Monday destroys what you built. Allow several days for reintegration – do laundry, recover your rhythm, sleep longer. Starting back on a Wednesday rather than a Monday gives your system time to adjust gradually.
Genuine psychological disconnection from work – eliminating work emails and digital noise – enables present-moment awareness in a way that passive scrolling never does. Physical movement such as walking, cycling, swimming, or dancing creates deeper restoration than lying still. And multiple shorter breaks distributed throughout the year consistently prove more effective for sustained stress reduction than a single long annual holiday.
Holiday energy lasts longest when we engage the body, embrace silence, and allow genuine freedom from screens and schedules. The richer and more deliberate the holiday, the further its effects reach into ordinary life.
Holiday is not merely time away from work. It is a state of consciousness – and one that can be sustained beyond the calendar dates, if we plan for it deliberately. By slowing our pace before we leave, managing demands upon our return, and allowing the body to feel safe, holiday can begin before departure and persist long after we are back.

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